Valentine's Day hasn't been a big holiday for me in quite some time. Chris and I have been dating for 12 years and well....we just haven't made a big deal of it since we celebrated it for the first or second time together. Mom and dad always acknowledged it, remembering to pick up a card, our favorite candy and maybe even a little surprise, but again it just wasn't a holiday anyone went all out or over the top with. This year I had a few people help me look at Valentine's Day a little different...
1. Cammie Marie: I never believed I could love someone so much! To say she has her momma wrapped around her finger is definitely an understatement! I am so thankful each and every day for this little girl. She fills my heart and reminds me daily how rewarding it is to be a mom.
2. Chris: I can't believe I am "one of those people." I can't believe I was given the opportunity to spend the rest of my life with my high school sweetheart :) Unfortunately after 12 years we are guilty of being used to one another. It has now become a rarity that either one of us do something super special or go out of the way for one another. We each fill our days between working full-time, finishing school, being parents, coaching baseball, working out, etc. that when we actually get a few minutes to watch a show together or have some "down" time we are asleep in seconds. When I actually allow myself to slow down and take a little time I realize how very lucky I am. Chris goes above and beyond (usually with minimal complaints) to make me happy. He will eat the same thing for dinner repeatedly, he manages my impulsiveness, he tries to help me see the positive rather than focusing on the negative, he reminds me I can do anything I put my mind to, he encourages me to embrace challenge and change, he makes dinner on a daily basis, and he would do anything in the entire world to make me happy. Thank goodness I have someone to share my heart with on this day of love! :)
3. Chrissie: Sometimes I wonder how in the world I ever made it through life without this girl. She is the best friend a girl could ask for. Although I can never say enough wonderful things about her I have been especially appreciative of her during this whole moving fiasco. Chrissie has opened up her house and time every step we have taken through out this process. She has allowed our whole family (dogs included) to invade her house when ours was shown, she watched Cammie while Chris and I went searching for the perfect house and has agreed to allow all of us to spend as much time as we need or want at her house while we stay with mom and dad. The day before Valentine's Day we had to evacuate our house once again and when we arrived for dinner she had Valentine's gifts laid out on the counter for B, Z, Cammie and myself. Most of them were nothing more than purely thoughtful gifts that only we would appreciate. My heart just filled knowing she took the time to think of us and remind us how much she truly loves us. I am so lucky to have such a wonderful friend!